REFLECTIONS on the HISTORY
OF PSYCHOTHERAPY
Adam Blatner, M.D.
May 17, 2012
Supplement to a
lecture given at the Senior
University Georgetown's Summer Program, June 4, 2012)
The following are
various comments that occurred to me to supplement what I said
in the talk. The field of psychotherapy has evolved a lot, and I
wanted to catch you up on some of the trends. Second, I want to
fill you in on some of the issues that have come up, because
they are exciting to me, at the forefront of culture. Why are
people getting stressed out? And what are they seeking in
therapy?
First, I’m sorry to report that a goodly percentage don’t care
much about the why—or want to find a simple object to blame—not
their own faulty thinking and valuing—and basically they just
want relief—symptom relief—which does nothing to address the
underlying condition in many cases. Occasionally that’s all
that’s needed. But most often, people need to realize that
they’d be crazy if they weren’t feeling crazy. That is to say,
they’d be foolish to deny that anyone with the stresses they
have piled up would not be feeling confused in their minds. Even
if the stresses were obvious—and often they’re not—the confusion
comes from the mistaken belief that they should be able to cope,
everyone else does.
First of all, everyone else is not coping. Most folks are just
quiet about it and able to continue some social facade of
normality. Lots are on medications. Others are suffering and
that may be contained within family dynamics, but spouses and
other relatives may know and are suffering, too. There are all
kinds of ways this is playing out.
So psychotherapy for lots of clients involves a very iffy
mixture of saying you want to change but not really, an ongoing
negotiation. Lots of clients just want to complain about what
seems like a host of various stresses, hurts, disappointments,
accusations of others’ having unrealistic expectations—indeed,
I’m reminded of Hamlet’s soliloquy, the one that starts, “To be,
or not to be.” It’s a meditation on suicide, and why not. He
says:
For who would bear the whips and scorns of
time,
The proud man’s contumely,
The pangs of despis’d love,
The Law’s delay, the insolence of office,
The spurns that patient merit take of the
unworthy;
When he himself might his quietus make with a
bare bodkin?
– that last line means, when he could just ease himself
out with a knife to the heart.
All I’m saying here is that life is tough and there are lots of
reasons to feel down, anxious, depressed.
And psychotherapy can’t guarantee that it can be made all nice.
What it can do is offer an opportunity to make choices a bit
more consciously. I note that good choice making involves three
components: First, you don’t rush into it or avoid the
decision-making. Second, you make a real effort to weigh the
pros and cons. You can never do this perfectly, but you can make
a reasonable effort. Third, you get impartial consultation. If
it doesn’t work out, you did better than most in trying to
decide—truth is you can’t know all the variables perfectly.
Adjunctive Therapy
Adjunctive means in addition, and some times the in addition is
the main thing. If a soldier gets his leg blown off by a land
mine, then surgery is the main treatment, and maybe blood
transfusions. But in fact it’s the physical therapy, and then
prosthesis, the artificial leg, and then the occupational
therapy, and the psychology needs to be going on throughout,
maybe in no way like psychoanalysis, but still looking at what
needs to happen to support the patient’s spirit, morale, family
relations, and the like. Even if the therapy is mainly performed
by the physical therapist and the social worker who works with
the soldier’s family, too, it’s important—and in the long run,
might well be the most important element.
Now I’ve come around in my thinking to look at major mental
illness as being as catastrophic, as life-changing, as scarey,
as grief-filled, as a stroke or having your leg blown off, or
both legs! And of course therapy is needed to address the
psychological elements here. In the past there was a naive
assumption that healthy people could cope with such changes, but
if you look up close, what was going on under the surface for
our parents was simple containment, not healthy working through.
They put a lid on it when they could, which was mostly. Often it
took a bit of numbing alcohol to help. Their families suffered,
but the bottled-up (in both meanings of that term) guy wouldn’t
admit openly that he was up-tight and sitting on turbulent
emotions— wouldn’t admit it to himself, either. Our parents
generation had a lot of subtle what we today recognize as
PTSD.
So psychotherapy helps in supporting recovery, even if it isn’t
the main treatment.
Mild Neurosis
The problem psychiatrically is that there are three levels.
Today I’m going to talk about the current history of
psychotherapy, especially the changes in the last century, and
more so in the last fifty or so years. I’ll acknowledge some
pioneers but give more time to recent trends.
Psychotherapy is mainly talk therapy, or what I did, which was
to add some measure of role playing, action, a touch of drama.
There are also approaches that use art or music or other media.
But psychotherapy is not using medicines, nor other physical
modalities, nor using a hospital as a place of retreat, or
restraint—those are not psychotherapy. Psychotherapy seeks to
change mood, thinking or behavior through talking, mainly. It
can happen one-to-one, one client, one therapist; or with
couples; or with families; or with groups! And the point I’ll
make today is that what goes on in therapy is way different from
the cartoons of the guy on the couch!
Things have changed a lot, certain trends having diminished,
other trends having expanded. Also, all this has been
happening in a culture that is likewise changing. Indeed, the
field of psychotherapy as it has evolved mirrors in interesting
ways the other facets of culture change.
So the purposes of this talk are several:
- to catch you up on what’s been happening and break you
out of old and outmoded stereotypes
- to sensitize you to the meanings of the trends more
recently—their significance
- to warm you up to some of the issues involved.
The Process of Dialectic
That fancy word refers to a process described by the philosopher
Hegel almost 200 years ago, a process of thesis, antithesis, and
synthesis: which means somebody gets a bright idea and someone
else criticizes or even fights against it; and eventually some
other person —and rarely the same person—struggles with the
struggle and comes up with a resolution whereby both sides get
to be at least partly right—the synthesis.
I find this process throughout history in almost every field—as
did Hegel—and it helps to think of how things evolve. It’s not
just one doggone thing after another. One king fighting another
king and now the peasants work the land under one regime and
later they work under another regime—maybe a little better,
maybe a little worse. That indeed typified large chunks of
history for large numbers of people. The idea of progress is
relatively new in human history— a few hundred years old and
accelerating in rate of change, in part because the that rate of
deep change has become far more rapid and discernable within
one’s own lifetime.
In a few decades I’ll tell my great grandchildren, When I was
your age we psychiatrists used to talk with patients. They’ll
say, No way or whatever is current slang. I’ll say, yes! We even
used to listen!
Psychotherapy has changed. And I’m a dying breed: Psychiatrists
who were especially interested in psychotherapy, talk therapy,
not so much medicines. Oh, I appreciate how much good medicines
can do when used wisely—which they aren’t always—but how
can you help patients come forth into the world?
And even though I’m mainstream enough to get into a higher
category of academic and professional acceptance, I’m also
maverick enough to have straddled the arena between
psychoanalysis and biological or pharmacological psychiatry.
Iatros psych-iatros, refers to physicians. I’m an MD
who then specialized in working with people with mental illness.
Psychologists and counselors had different backgrounds.
Psychiatrists had about 8 years post-graduate work, most
counselors have about 2 and psychologists have about 4. But
psychiatry as a field has retreated from the practice of
psychotherapy—for many reasons, mainly that insurance companies
won’t reimburse them with near as much money as they could make
from seeing patients for consultations for being on medicine. I
won’t go into the rant about what this has led to.
I got interested in a particular type of psychotherapy called
psychodrama or using role playing in psychotherapy—and to
understand it better, I became an amateur student of comparative
psychotherapy of all sorts—there are hundreds of different
approaches—and secondary to that, became interested in the whole
endeavor. How does talk alone or mixed with art, drama, poetry,
physical exercises, and such help?
Now that I’m retired , why am I still interested? Because
whatever works has transcended the boundaries of treatment of
sick people in a sick social role in a medical model. Even those
models are outdated and there are new ones, such as the recovery
model. There is also personal coaching and ways to help healthy
people become even healthier, more resilient.
Indeed, what we’ve learned is that what used to be called
psychotherapy has always worked better on people who were
relatively healthy, and it never worked very well for people who
were much more severely mentally ill. And for those in-between,
it worked some.
For those who were more severely disturbed, for a while there
just wasn’t much that could be done—about 65 years ago. There
was electroshock or electro-convulsive treatment—that really
worked well for some patients but not others—really, though,
those and others that give me the shudders were just ways to
calm people down. We didn’t know what was going on. We still
don’t know that much, but there are a number of medicines that
work better than anything before—actually, several generations
of improvement—for many conditions, but not all. And even so
there is much that remains mysterious. But all that is not
psychotherapy, which involves non-physical means, psycho-
referring to the mind, what we can do to modify the way people
think. That last part interests me.
It applies to education and healthy child-rearing, how we run
our businesses and how we run our culture. Now there are
therapies that work in couples, families, and groups—it’s not
all one-to-one any more.
The other point I want to make is that there is a creeping rise
in people’s expectation. In our own lifetime the expectation has
shifted so that there are more refined ways to raise kids other
than hitting or intimidating them. Bosses who just scare and
yell at their subordinates are no longer imagined to be
forceful—they’re considered jerks. And so forth—lots of general
social standards have shifted—they’ve raised the bar on what is
truly civilized. So I see the general process of what I call
“psychological-ization”—becoming more
psychologically-minded—more empathic, more sensitive—happening
in marriages, in people’s expectations of themselves, in many
churches—and so forth.
I don’t see much psychology happening on the public scene yet,
on the political scene. Primitive rhetoric is not that different
from fifty years ago. Being out-front bigoted is less
respectable, but many people still feel quite entitled to
maintain certain prejudices. Ironically, one of the greatest
pockets of resistance to liberalizing laws about homosexuality
come from churches that are mainly part of the African-American
subculture.
Anyway, the point here is that psychotherapy has been changing
as much as many other fields, from computers to medicine. Yet
there’s a major lag in public perception—major! This is partly
the fault of cartoonists! The psychoanalytic couch has been an
ol’ standby and about as unrealistic as the tiny desert island
theme. And much of what can be shown on television—the few shows
that have featured psychotherapy, tend to be more
psychoanalytic, with the therapist being silent and letting
patients thrash around in their own mind-swill. I never
liked psychoanalysis especially for this phony passivity.
Now many people who do therapy use a more active approach,
partaking of cognitive therapy, which really prods patients to
think a bit more logically. I generally approve of this, but I
deny that this one type of therapy does the job for all
patients, or does enough of a job.
There are many facets to bringing people forth. First, that’s
the way I think of it—not just fixing them, or relieving
symptoms, but raising consciousness, helping them to be more
mentally flexible and able to cope with our changing times.
This is not easy—the second point has an associated lightbulb
joke—remember those, around since the 1970s?—How many
psychiatrists does it take to change a light bulb. Answer, only
one, but—big but—the light bulb has to ask to be changed.
Ha ha.
Actually, probably a quarter of all the people who have been
exposed to treatment have been forced into it grudgingly, often
remaining in denial—there’s nothing wrong with me! People in
substance abuse programs who have been sent there or go to jail;
teenage delinquents in youth centers. People supposedly in
recovery who never really accepted that they were sick to begin
with. Others, maybe another half, want symptom relief, not to
feel so depressed or rage-filled or anxious, but if one held off
on the prescription pad and inquired about their life, they’d be
crazy not to be so crazy! What I mean is that any outsider
looking at their life is likely to say, “Whoa! If all that was
happening to me, I’d be just as up-tight or more so!”
An eminent psychotherapist observed about 40 years ago, lots of
people don’t really want to get well so much as just to get by
better with the ways they are sick. Their attitudes and goals
and the systems they are trying to work within are often full of
stress. So we’re talking patch jobs, crutches, what can keep
them going. Sort of like in the military in the 2nd world war,
lots of soldiers or pilots used amphetamines to keep alert on
extended-fatigue missions.
Social Madness
Let me say right now that part of the problem is that we live in
a culture that has come to a rough balance with its own madness,
its own gross inequities. We feel that we have earned fully our
way to whatever the haves got, and the have-nots have simply
failed to try hard enough. That this belief, this complacency,
is full of holes, is something that the mainstream—who tend to
be more articulate than those who are pushed to the margins, the
marginalized—believe. It’s a sort of “I’m alright, Jack”
attitude—a phrase used by some English unionists when their own
financial and economic security had been established even if
that puts others out.
Programs that overwork workers, under-pay workers, and so forth
are part of this system, and overwork and other social pressures
are not yet recognized as major stresses. Nor is getting fired
after years of work and how profoundly that can mess a person
up. You probably have many stories of friends and family
where part of the stress is the sheer feeling of the injustice
of it all.
But since we can’t change it, we need to do that self-delusion
satirized by the play, Candide— that this is the best of all
possible worlds. It isn’t. A good deal of the stuff that must be
addressed in psychotherapy—and please note that it often is
avoided!—has to do with the unspoken and spoken rules of
politics, economics, religion, social expectations, and so
forth. But that avoidance only adds to the patient’s sense of
feeling crazy for feeling bad about what others seem to be
putting up with just fine.
Increasingly voices have been raised about this, and operated on
the outskirts of the profession for seventy years or more. But
they are kept in check with the myths of adjustment and
normality. The feminist revolution had to fight against the use
of tranquilizers for women who were getting weirded out by the
madness of the nuclear household, the isolation, the lack of
rewarding work, the mind-numbing challenge of living with kids
of any age, and not getting wiggy. But of course, many did
get wiggy and were helped to adjust by a prescribed equivalent
of booze.
The Concept of Synergy
A way to appreciate the art of bringing people forth is to
recognize that it isn’t just one technique, but the power of
mixing many approaches, all of which support the others. This
happens for the better or for the worse.
For the worse: The concept of co-dependency was recognized more
vividly in treating alcoholics, but then we realized it
applies to all sorts of problems. If others are doing the same
thing or are in any way unconsciously benefitting from your
problem-behavior, those others will mostly unconsciously
reinforce it, make excuses for it. The spouses of some
alcoholics would participate in not only the denial system, but
buy them a bottle of booze for their birthdays! Bailing out,
rescuing, hushing up, many of you have had relatives and friends
who’ve gone through these cycles, and they’re often noted—once
the field caught on—in all sorts of related problems.
For the better, getting several people who admit it openly to
participate in helping each other—self-help groups—not just
Alcoholics Anonymous, but all sorts of groups—the mutual effort
to move towards wellness—literally, in eating the right foods,
avoiding junk foods, etc.—such programs are now going on in some
large churches. Government programs were relatively flourishing
for a short time in the late 1960s, the community mental health
movement. Great hopes. Then funding got cut and cut again,
because these people were political outsiders, easily
marginalized, lacking sufficient political clout. So that’s
drying up. But people need to help people, and we are only
lately beginning to emerge from a fiercely individualistic
pull-yourself-up-by-the-bootstraps culture.
This happens not only in tribes and teams and orchestras, but in
marriages and other settings. I note this to also call to your
attention that our culture and educational system profoundly
distorts the obvious truth that folks are better at some things
and worse at other—that there are major distributions of talent
as well as temperament.
Most people have been raised as if they could do everything well
if they only tried, and there have been few voices suggesting
that this is profoundly crazy. The degree to which effort can
compensate for a lack of talent is vastly overestimated. Our
industrial work has made work sort of mechanical, and has
treated people as robots. This is true also for the role of
housewife! Many of you are discovering or feeling safe to admit
that certain traditional role components no longer fit your
tastes, interest, or temperament, if they ever did to begin
with. My wife has hated dishwashing—I like doing it—it hurts her
back and bores her—I’m okay with it, etc. Other roles that don’t
fit the traditional what men do and what women do or at least
they should do—are getting re-negotiated. Some fellows discover
that they love to cook. And so forth.
Back to the point that there are scores of phony elements like
this throughout our culture that people are only beginning to
speak up about—and that not speaking up and accepting the
traditional, and generally small minded rather than enlightened
view of traditional roles—has accounted for a signifcant amount
of stress, tension, and misery.
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