{"id":408,"date":"2012-04-01T17:13:41","date_gmt":"2012-04-02T01:13:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/?p=408"},"modified":"2012-04-01T17:13:41","modified_gmt":"2012-04-02T01:13:41","slug":"meshuggenosis-21st-century-neurosis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/?p=408","title":{"rendered":"Meshuggenosis: 21st Century Neurosis"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(Meshugginah: Yiddish word for crazy. Maybe just eccentric.)   <br \/>My grandkids will not be neurotic in the way their grandparents were, products (so it was thought) of the parenting of their parents. We were scolded too much or not enough, given too much freedom or not enough. Always the analysts\u2014the arbiters of blame\u2014could find a problem with the parents. Joke funny in the 1950s: \u201cMine son the doctor goes to see a psych-in-alist, and pays tventy-dollars, a fortune! An<a href=\"http:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/flusteredfashion.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; display: inline; margin-left: 0px; border-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-right: 0px\" title=\"flusteredfashion\" border=\"0\" alt=\"flusteredfashion\" align=\"right\" src=\"http:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/flusteredfashion-thumb.jpg\" width=\"338\" height=\"287\" \/><\/a>d vot does he talk about? (Smiling proudly) Me!\u201d <\/p>\n<p>My kids (bless their hearts) are great parents. If their kids are messed up, it won\u2019t be because they were less than perfect. But the culture! Oy! You\u2019d have to be crazy not to be driven crazy! <\/p>\n<p>Diagnoses for the 21st century: Overchoice\u2014too many options for not just clothes, but surgery, chemotherapy, and everything else! A Culture of Maximal Discontent: Look at all you aren\u2019t that \u201ceverybody else\u201d (it seems are) or have, do, wear, achieve. (Of course the image is a composite of all the victories and none of the prices paid, the time and money and energy devoted, and the reality that one person couldn\u2019t begin to do or be all that.) Unrealistic Expectations. Straight A\u2019s. Enuff said.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(Meshugginah: Yiddish word for crazy. Maybe just eccentric.) My grandkids will not be neurotic in the way their grandparents were, products (so it was thought) of the parenting of their parents. We were scolded too much or not enough, given too much freedom or not enough. Always the analysts\u2014the arbiters of blame\u2014could find a problem [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19,14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-408","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-events","category-foolin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/408"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=408"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/408\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=408"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=408"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=408"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}