{"id":2952,"date":"2018-07-10T10:18:18","date_gmt":"2018-07-10T18:18:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/?p=2952"},"modified":"2018-07-10T10:18:18","modified_gmt":"2018-07-10T18:18:18","slug":"end-of-life-doula-brilliant-idea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/?p=2952","title":{"rendered":"End-of-Life Doula”! Brilliant Idea"},"content":{"rendered":"

I picked up a book at the public library titled A Graceful Goodbye: A New Outlook on Death<\/a>, by Susan B. Mercer. She\u2019s an end-of-life doula. The idea of \u201cdoula\u201d as one who facilitates a major role transition like birth was familiar. Indeed, I was a doula for my daughter\u2019s first child\u2019s first few weeks. What a privilege! But apply that word to death! Double-wow!<\/p>\n

I wrote an article on role transitions and how to celebrate them, but this takes it another step: Doula or educated aide for dying! Of course! (Why didn\u2019t I think of this?) (Just because I don\u2019t think of everything\u2014lesson to be learned now!)<\/p>\n

Anyway, the author (Susan) gives me ideas! (1) She multiplies her role and what it entails via writing, and writing is a technology I\u2019ve spoken and written about! We have writing! We didn\u2019t used to have writing. Many people don\u2019t even have writing, much less reading!<\/p>\n

(2) Culture is speeding up its evolution! Things are happening faster and more interconnected. It\u2019s could be charted as a rising slope of change! Wow!<\/p>\n

(3) Religion has had this covered but emerged from each one\u2019s own roots and thereby contaminated by each one\u2019s beliefs. In our own era of non-belief or eclectic belief, in which millions of people have friends of many different beliefs and no beliefs, rituals as gatherings\u2014with people from different backgrounds\u2014as non-battlefields\u2014is a relatively new happening!<\/p>\n

(4) So books that appeal to no-particular-belief are interesting, and the subject of this book is also interesting: There are so many components to end-of-life! It could fill the mind of a professional!<\/p>\n

(5) Just the idea that it\u2019s not morbid, could be extracted from the realm of the unspoken, the realm of taboo, talked about, anticipated, even, planned for\u2014shocking! But good. Let\u2019s do it!<\/p>\n

(6) So many components! Legacy projects! Final projects for the still-living. Services, green burials\u2014only a handful of states have them in 2018\u2014etc.<\/p>\n

Lots more to think about. The basic idea is rich and the time is right. I want to help spread the word. (I\u2019ve used this medium of a blog to spread the word on lots of stuff!) <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I picked up a book at the public library titled A Graceful Goodbye: A New Outlook on Death, by Susan B. Mercer. She\u2019s an end-of-life doula. The idea of \u201cdoula\u201d as one who facilitates a major role transition like birth was familiar. Indeed, I was a doula for my daughter\u2019s first child\u2019s first few weeks. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[43,22,13,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2952","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-action-explorations","category-book-reviews","category-spirituality-and-philosophy","category-wisdom-ing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2952"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2952"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2952\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2953,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2952\/revisions\/2953"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2952"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2952"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2952"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}