{"id":227,"date":"2011-02-16T12:59:39","date_gmt":"2011-02-16T20:59:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/?p=227"},"modified":"2011-02-16T12:59:39","modified_gmt":"2011-02-16T20:59:39","slug":"re-juvenile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/?p=227","title":{"rendered":"Re-Juvenile"},"content":{"rendered":"

Thinking of Christopher Noxon\u2019s book, \u201cRe-Juvenile<\/a>,\u201d (New York: Crown Publishing, 2006),  generally I enjoyed it. I think the author speaks to the hunger for a re-integration of the best elements of child-like-ness, as I talked about in my book, The Art of Play, now being revised. However, the language is problematical. I described the value of differentiating between the child-like and the child-ish in the 3rd 1997 edition, but I\u2019ve changed my mind. Let\u2019s get the subtle age-ism out of it!<\/p>\n

My latest thinking is that the whole business of associating many of these qualities with youth, childhood, etc., is misleading. We’re talking about qualities of vitality, some of which were stifled in the industrial era. We learned to walk at 10-12 months, to talk at 1 – 3 years, yet dancing and drama and recitation of political speeches or poetry are not considered childish or infantile. In the same sense, let\u2019s not think of what I used to call \u201cchild-like-ness\u201d as particularly associated with childhood. Let\u2019s call it instead, \u201cvitality,\u201d and recognize that many qualities can be developed, matured, refined, and more complex and balanced forms of expression cultivated throughout life! I\u2019m especially referring to qualities such as spontaneity, imaginativeness, exuberance, bodily fluidity, exploration, curiosity, playfulness, interpersonal vulnerability and sensitivity, etc. Of course in their early forms they can be foolish, but we need to recognize that there are more mature forms for all of these qualities. <\/p>\n

Part of the challenge is with these and other qualities, to distill away the residues of childishness, which includes lack of insight, discrimination, self-modulation, awareness of when and where to engage a vital impulse, entitlement, self-centered-ness, selfishness, greed, etc. All these can be matured away from without the loss of the elements of vitality. <\/p>\n

\u201cYoung at Heart\u201d is another phrase I have come to resist as age-ist. I\u2019m not offended—I love the song!—but I want to help my age-mates feel that the idea of being young—when so many parts of the body are wearing thin if not out—need not be a foolish illusion. The game is reframed again by just talking about vitality, which is more an attitude of mind. You can theoretically enjoy it even if you\u2019re getting a bit senile, because it involves a cultivation of a mixture of love, faith, innocence, and openness that isn\u2019t a bad not to go out on.  I\u2019ll probably write about this general theme more as time continues to throw challenges in my path during my eighth decade on this planet. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Thinking of Christopher Noxon\u2019s book, \u201cRe-Juvenile,\u201d (New York: Crown Publishing, 2006),  generally I enjoyed it. I think the author speaks to the hunger for a re-integration of the best elements of child-like-ness, as I talked about in my book, The Art of Play, now being revised. However, the language is problematical. I described the value […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22,11,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-227","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-book-reviews","category-literacy","category-wisdom-ing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/227"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=227"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/227\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=227"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=227"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blatner.com\/adam\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=227"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}