Increasingly in the last year I\u2019ve grown noticeably slightly annoyed at all manner of things, activities that were distractions to my growing focus. I\u2019ve been a little bit puzzled by this reaction, since it seemed new. Then I realized that the annoyance was an externalization\u2014as if the lure of other things was being promoted by \u201cthem,\u201d calling to me, tempting me to do all sorts of things\u2014join this, buy that, give to this, do that, join this, give up that. But it has all been a projection of my own inner sucker, the part of me that doesn\u2019t want to miss out on anything, that wants to buy, have, and achieve everything that is greedy. I was annoyed most of all at this vulnerability to temptation\u2014it represented my younger, more immature self.<\/p>\n
I realized that this is what middle-kids go through at their annoyance at being confronted with kids who embody or enact behaviors or attitudes they consider baby-ish. They are trying to escape from the lure and the illusions of their own inner baby, and want to take a stand against all manifestations of this regressive attitude. Of course it\u2019s easier to notice in others. When Jesus suggested that we cast the beam (or big stick) out of our own eye before commenting on the mote (or tiny splinter) in our neighbor\u2019s eye, this is the dynamic of projection he was alluding to.<\/p>\n
I resolved to use such feelings as an opportunity, a nudge from my own subconscious, to affirm my own purpose, mission, aims, as my time in life grew (relatively) short. I do want to focus more on high priority, and find myself disturbed when I\u2019m derailed from this goal. This seems to be a discipline of taking responsibility that is needed for this challenge. I knew it was foolish to blame the sources of distraction: They\u2019re not doing anything other than their own thing! It was my temptation to join them, or feeling guilty for not joining them, etc., that was the real goad.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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